"幸"與"不幸"，只在乎一念之間，作者透過患有自閉症的兒子，身心體現了這段寶貴的心路歷程。由起初的自怨自艾，到後來感謝上天，她體會到兒子的到來是為她的生命增添色彩，從而學懂生命的意義。 此書行文淺白，感情細膩，適合一般讀者，作者希望藉此令人對自閉症，甚至生命，有多一份了解，多一份體會，多一份感恩。 This book chronicles the experience and spiritual journey of a mother of an autistic child, uncovering the myriad of difficulties that face autistic children and their parents. Told from the perspective of the mother, the book shows how, in fighting for the rights and best possible opportunities for the autistic child, the mother has turned a curse into a blessing. The book will have resonance for parents of children with autism and other learning difficulties. It demonstrates that however difficult it is to bring up children with special needs, these difficulties are not insurmountable. The book addresses issues beyond autism and motherhood, such as discrimination, opportunities and participation, purpose in life, etc. Therefore the readership is not confined to parents of autistic children. The book will provide good food for thought for anyone with an interest in people and life in general. While there are books authored by parents of autistic children, they are mostly published overseas. The majority of these books aim at providing parents with tips on how to parent autistic children. Locally, there are a few books about the experience of parents of children with special needs but they are all written in Chinese. The book is written in an accessible style and can easily appeal to the general reader.

• 目錄
• Dr Fernando Cheung Chiu Hung 張超雄博士
• Dr Louis Shih Tai Cho， JP 史泰祖醫生太平紳士
• Dr Kathy Lee Yuet Sheung 李月裳博士
• Ms Yolanda Wong 黃嚴麗慈女士
• Reverend Sek-wai Lo 羅錫為牧師
• AUTHOR'S INTRODUCTION
• CHAPTER 1 Tony started kindergarten
• CHAPTER 2 Is Tony normal?
• CHAPTER 3 Tony has autistic features
• CHAPTER 4 Tony is autistic
• CHAPTER 5 Early intervention
• CHAPTER 6 To work or not to work
• CHAPTER 7 Tony's schooling
• CHAPTER 8 What a naughty boy!
• CHAPTER 9 Autism and alternative therapies
• CHAPTER 1 0 Tony's intelligence
• CHAPTER 1 1 Seeking a better world for Tony
• CHAPTER 1 2 I never thought I would do a PhD
• CHAPTER 1 3 What a different world!
• CHAPTER 1 4 Incredible news
• CHAPTER 1 5 Was it a right choice?
• CHAPTER 1 6 What is the best treatment for autism?
• CHAPTER 1 7 Gareth is a miracle
• CHAPTER 1 8 Should we return to Hong Kong?
• CHAPTER 1 9 Our summer visit to Hong Kong in 2000
• CHAPTER 2 0 Another miracle
• CHAPTER 2 1 Tony's home programme
• CHAPTER 2 2 Tony's talents
• CHAPTER 2 3 Tony had a traffic accident
• CHAPTER 2 4 Tony hurt his leg， so did I
• CHAPTER 2 5 Being an advocate
• CHAPTER 2 6 Parents' campaign
• CHAPTER 2 7 What is “excellent” education for SEN students?
• CHAPTER 2 8 Discrimination
• CHAPTER 2 9 Speaking up for Tony
• CHAPTER 3 0 Helping other SEN kids
• CHAPTER 3 1 It's not fair
• CHAPTER 3 2 Gareth's love for Tony
• CHAPTER 3 3 What a nuisance!
• CHAPTER 3 4 The strides Tony has made
• CHAPTER 3 5 Tennis with Tony
• CHAPTER 3 6 Tony's cooking competition
• CHAPTER 3 7 Tony's achievements
• CHAPTER 3 8 Tony enters into adulthood
• CHAPTER 3 9 Tony goes to “university”
• CHAPTER 4 0 Does Tony love me?
• CHAPTER 4 1 I once said: I won't be happy for the rest of my life
• CHAPTER 4 2 Purpose of life
• CHAPTER 4 3 I was chosen by God
• CHAPTER 4 4 Hurdle race
• CHAPTER 4 5 Abundant blessings
• ABOUT THE AUTHOR